The Key to a Successful Marriage


Marriages today are under much more stress than a generation ago.

Have you had your fill of marital upsets? Regain the true joy of marriage. The Wincel Group successfully delivers marriage counselling and can take a marriage to a completely new and fulfilling level.

A recent client success:

“I have felt for years that my and my husband’s relationship could be much better. We tried a few other methods before we discovered Marriage Counselling at The Wincel Group. We have just completed it and I feel such a relief and release. I am so excited now to make plans with my husband for the future, learn together and communicate even more. Thank you so much!”

If you have any questions about our marriage counselling services please contact us.

The Key to a Successful Marriage

The following article does not replace our marriage counselling but should give you some helpful hints:

When you have a good marriage, life is wonderful!

You can endure the difficulties at work more easily if you can go home to a happy marriage. You have more fun during your free time when you do it with your spouse. Insurance experts agree that happily married people are healthier and live longer than single people.

On the other hand, if you are trapped in a bad marriage, life is miserable. You and your spouse either argue or avoid communicating. You and your spouse cannot agree on things and prefer to spend your time apart from each other.

The stress of a bad marriage makes your work more difficult. Your production and income suffer because you are so unhappy. Achieving success in other areas of life is very difficult.

The Key Ingredient

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Lasting relationships are becoming rare, don’t they? People seem to start a new relationship easily, when they are young and much less quickly, when they have had their share of experience aka failures.

Sure, you say, that’s understandable, they got hurt and now they are more careful. Life taught them. Better safe than sorry. True, but there are also these nagging thoughts in the back of their heads:

“What if I am missing out to find the person I could be really happy with?”

“Isn’t there at least someone for everyone out there?”

“Maybe I should lower my expectations?”

And if someone is brave enough to consider meeting a new person through a dating service they might get second thoughts like this:

“I don’t want to put me out there like a product on the market!”

“I don’t want to appear needy.”

“This is soooo embarrassing!”

We agree that you shouldn’t lock yourself away after a failed marriage or relationship but you also shouldn’t rush into the next head over heels. It helps to do some “homework” and prepare yourself.

Here is a highly successful, practical tip for you:

  • Sit down with a pen and paper or on your computer.
  • Think of those things you really cannot do without in a good relationship. Try to first focus on character and attitude in another person rather than start with looks and status in life.
  • Write it down.
  • List out all the things you would like to be present in your ideal partner. You can go into detail of every aspect of your ideal relationship. The more detail, the better. You want to paint a clear picture of who your ideal partner is thus ruling out anyone else. Remember: This is YOUR list. Be as specific as you like. You don’t have to share it with anyone 😉
  • Repeat this until you feel that you have covered everything and you can almost picture this person in your head.
  • End when you feel really good about it.
  • Take it up the next day and read through it again.
  • Make amendments or add to it if needed until you are 100% happy.

Now you have achieved two things:

– You decluttered your mind on the subject of “Who is the right partner for me?” and

– You have put yourself in a brand-new position where your clear concept of a partner will help you start looking for this exact person and allows them to find you, too. Try it!

More on this subject and “How to clean up one’s past” before one can move on into a new, healthy relationship is subject of our next blog. Watch this space, when we explain a fantastic service we deliver here at The Wincel, called Life Repair Consultation.

Call us at +44 (0)1342 823525 – Or send us an email now when you want more information on any of these subjects.

Priya Kumar: An International Motivational Speaker and Book Author at The Wincel

Piya KumarWhen we heard that Priya Kumar was flying in from India to give a one-off workshop at The Wincel Group, we were excited – but also slightly panicky for we only had 5 days to prepare!

We sent out a bunch of emails on Wednesday for the event and Priya posted her workshop on her Facebook page with 80,000 followers (!!!) (mostly in India but also in England and all over the planet).

With the kind help of our dedicated volunteers we put together a very nice event with Cream Tea and coffee for everyone!

On Saturday, we were happy to see many people, even some who heard about the workshop from Priya’s fan-page and who came down from London especially for this occasion. Considering the short notice, it was a very good turn-out.


After everyone had some freshly made scones, biscuits and sandwiches with their tea or coffee, Priya started the workshop. She is a great speaker and therefore got everyone immediately involved. Her subject “Overcoming Obstacles to Success”, really applied to everyone. People often wonder about their purpose in life: They do one thing and yet feel that they should really be doing something else to be happy and successful.

Here are some of the responses we received from attendees:

“Such a pleasure and honour to have met you! I’m inspired and impressed. Hope to liaise with you and have a meal with you at some point. Do let me know when you are free. Thanks for the book it was a best spent Saturday evening for £20 bargain. Hope to see you again soon. Regards Uday”

“It was a very good talk and the afternoon tea was delicious! THANKS, Charles”

“Hello Priya! I’m Jenny! I was at your seminar at The Wincel today and I loved it! Thank you. Best, Jennifer :)”

lecturePriya announced that she will be holding another workshop in London and at Ashdown Park Hotel – with at least 4 weeks notice – so that lots of people can take advantage of this!

For £20 everyone had a great time, some excellent Cream Tea and even a book from Priya.

If you are interested to attend the next workshop on “Overcoming Obstacles to Success!” by Priya Kumar please click here to send us an email and reserve your seat.

Prosper in 2013

To mark the end, of a busy and successful year we had a truly magical Christmas time here at The Wincel:

The Wincel Christmas Impressins

Another successful and fulfilling year where even more clients got freedom from depressions, sufferings and losses in life and were able to get a fresh, new and energetic outlook to life! And hereby proved again that this is possible without the need for medications.

Those who never suffered of depression and were already had a successful career and life were able to overcome burn-out and day-to-day challenges and started 2013 with new vigour and understanding. Ready to take on life.

This left us with a sense of achievement to continue to be of assistance to our clients.

Kind regards from your team at The Wincel Group.

We wish you a wonderful 2013!

“You make New Year’s resolutions.

And you make them into the teeth of old resolutions which were different.

Then you don’t keep your new resolutions and you tell yourself you are weak-willed.

You aren’t weak-willed, you are simply obeying yourself as of yesterday.” – LRH

Leadership in Business Lecture

The lecture “Leadership in business” was recently given at The Wincel Group by a very experienced business consultant, Martin Kolb.

Leadership in Business Lecture

Martin covered all areas of leadership including the principles that govern it. He also covered the secret to effective communication in leadership, plus how to build and maintain success as a leader in business.
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The Wincel Group Service Introduction

The Wincel Group delivers a wide range of life improvement services such as consultations, personal counselling, seminars and lectures to help with everyday problems in all areas of life.

  • Problems in life and at work
  • Communication difficulties
  • Relationship difficulties
  • Lack of self-confidence
  • Stress and anxieties
  • Decision problems
  • Family upsets
  • Psychosomatic illnesses
  • Difficulties with knowing who you really are
  • Drug and alcohol problems

No matter what the problem, we can and like to help. Special personal care and attention is given each individual in order to bring about new abilities and new-found happiness in life.
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